The predominant forum of the internet, known as social media can put an extensive amount of stress on personal relationships today. Dating in a world that thrives on people seeking approval, describing their interest and updating  their real time “status” on time-lines that flood Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook,  can be an unwanted challenge when it comes isolating your personal relationships from the world. With all the privacy, or lack-thereof that comes with social media, the struggle to ignore your significant others perceived, and possibly inappropriate social media behavior can be a daunting reminder that a lack of trust or respect in one’s relationship is the real challenge.  Inappropriately using various accounts and possibly “diving in someone’s DM’s”; a method of privately contacting someone directly can cause a serious blow to personal relationships.  So while 7 out of 10  (PewResearch Center) Americans flock to social media daily,  there are still a few of us that will get lucky and our chosen partner may not choose to insert themselves into the on-line world where perception isn’t always reality.

Because social media has become a main stay in most of our lives it is important to know some of the crucial red flags when it comes to the world wide web of social media.com.

1. Inappropriate activity includes questionable behavior that should be addressed. If your partner is posting flirtatious comments, address it, immediately.
2. If your significant other is too private, this could be another red flag. If he or she refuses to change (for example) their Facebook relationship status from single to “in a relationship,” or post photos of you, or you two together, that may elude one to believe that any relationship beyond a plutonic  one is a fraud.
3. In a relationship that’s not going well? Constantly arguing while your partner continues to display a little too much social media PDA. You may want to communicate your concerns or abandon ship.
4. If your partner is posting photos of himself or herself to receive more attention (topless, scantily clad, more likely than not you’re going to be uncomfortable. Or maybe one is ok, but one each day is too many.  Your other half should feel fulfilled within your relationship, instead of resorting to “likes” on his or her social media pictures for a confidence boost.
5. A picture says a thousand words. With that being said, a picture on social media that you don’t like can say even more. If you are constantly seeing your partner in compromising pictures via the Internet, it might be time to speak up or leave.

One main facet of social media is its emphasis on creating and maintaining relationships. Understand the red flags listed above and reflect on your own relationships. If you are truly committed to your partner, social media may be a sacrifice you both can make.